{"id":4410,"date":"2021-08-04T21:27:00","date_gmt":"2021-08-04T21:27:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/?p=4410"},"modified":"2022-07-09T03:24:26","modified_gmt":"2022-07-09T03:24:26","slug":"i-never-thought-id-be-a-person-receiving-a-go-fund-me-but-i-am-and-im-grateful","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/?p=4410","title":{"rendered":"I never thought I&#8217;d be a person receiving a Go Fund Me&#8230;but I am. And I&#8217;m grateful."},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"kvgmc6g5 cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">My inner circle has some really special folks. Everyone in that circle was angered today by the bait and switch by Nationwide (see my<a href=\"https:\/\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/?p=4397\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"> earlier post for the details<\/a>).<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div dir=\"auto\">&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">&nbsp;<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"o9v6fnle cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">To be clear; these are folks who are privy to the aspects of this story I haven\u2019t told here yet. You think this is all bad now; try cutting yourself out of your own house\u2026that you are trapped in\u2026.with your one good hand running a reciprocating saw\u2026.18 hours after the power goes out. These are some of the parts of the story I haven\u2019t told publicly yet.<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div dir=\"auto\">&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">&nbsp;<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div class=\"o9v6fnle cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">That being said, I think my inner circle knew how much of a blow today was with this insurance company fuckery. I knew I was in the clear, regarding the car, on a Friday&#8230;.I had to cover my deductible.&nbsp; &nbsp;Knowing that, I paid other bills that I felt I could over the weekend. On Tuesday\/Wednesday that situation was completely reversed for me when the insurance company decided &#8220;they had made a mistake.&#8221;<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div dir=\"auto\">&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">(To get the timeline of events, see my earlier post &#8220;<a href=\"https:\/\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/?p=4397\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">It&#8217;s Called SuperVan For A Reason&#8230;And Now Insurance Company Fuckery Is Afoot.&#8221;<\/a><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div dir=\"auto\">&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div class=\"o9v6fnle cxmmr5t8 oygrvhab hcukyx3x c1et5uql ii04i59q\">\n<div dir=\"auto\">Thank you Ben Titus. He jumped on the momentum that was already building on social media for a potential <a href=\"https:\/\/www.gofundme.com\/f\/help-brittany-with-medical-and-vehicle-recovery?utm_source=customer&amp;utm_medium=copy_link&amp;utm_campaign=p_cf%20share-flow-1&amp;fbclid=IwAR3NB9AE9Rjh5vLK9x7NdaB9KfghHh_rRIZ2uyKK655WgAOYcmBnTKgxDbk\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Go Fund Me campaign<\/a>, and made it happen.<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\"><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/go-fund-me.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-4411\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/go-fund-me.jpg?resize=169%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"169\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/go-fund-me.jpg?resize=169%2C300&amp;ssl=1 169w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/go-fund-me.jpg?resize=300%2C533&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/go-fund-me.jpg?w=540&amp;ssl=1 540w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 169px) 100vw, 169px\" \/><\/a><\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div dir=\"auto\">\n<p>My name is Ben, and I\u2019m fundraising for a good friend and colleague, Brittany Frompovich.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>On July 14, Brittany, aka Lady Bass Music in Fredericksburg, VA was hit with a double whammy. In the morning, a fall at home resulted in a fractured wrist that has taken her out of performance commission for the foreseeable future. It also has hampered her ability to teach- she is a multi-instrumentalist specializing in double bass, electric bass, and guitar. Between the physical limitations as well as the numerous doctor\u2019s visits needed to treat the break and get it healed correctly, Brittany faces several months of recovery before all is back to normal. Brittany depends on teaching and performance- it\u2019s literally her day gig.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p>Worse yet- that evening, while recovering after the doctor\u2019s visit, massive storms rolled through Fredericksburg, turning her neighborhood and many others nearby into war zones with downed trees, power lines, and damage. Among the damaged property was Brittany\u2019s beloved \u2018Supervan 2.0\u2019, a meticulously maintained 2008 Dodge Caravan SXT, 4.0. A neighbor\u2019s neglected tree was downed during the storm, doing significant damage to the van and the roof of Brittany\u2019s house. After 2 days of work, the tree was removed and the van was able to make it to the shop under it\u2019s own power. After some back and forth, her insurance company told her that they would be repairing the van, only to take that back and inform her that they were totaling it out. Being an older vehicle, it\u2019s depreciated, so in order to replace the vehicle with something that\u2019s equivalently reliable, it\u2019s going to take MUCH more than the insurance company is willing to pay out.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Anyone that knows Brittany knows that Supervan 2.0 is an integral part of Lady Bass Music. It has carted equipment for her students across the DelMarVA region tirelessly for gigs, clinics, and other learning opportunities. It\u2019s crisscrossed the country on numerous tours supporting different artists, moved friends, family, and neighbors, and been the Swiss Army knife that Brittany lives by.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Brittany also works tirelessly for her students to help them grow and succeed, whether they are hobbyists doing it for fun all the way up to the professional level. Artists locally and nationally look to Brittany hold down the low end as a bassist and singer in their groups. Any help that we can give Brittany to support her getting things back up and running would be most welcome!<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/xray.jpg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-medium wp-image-4367\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/xray.jpg?resize=226%2C300&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"226\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/xray.jpg?resize=226%2C300&amp;ssl=1 226w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/xray.jpg?resize=300%2C399&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/08\/xray.jpg?w=722&amp;ssl=1 722w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 226px) 100vw, 226px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/E4B14BAE-0F1D-4945-96A2-C6D05D6EA038.jpeg?ssl=1\"><img data-recalc-dims=\"1\" loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-4388 alignnone\" src=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/E4B14BAE-0F1D-4945-96A2-C6D05D6EA038.jpeg?resize=300%2C166&#038;ssl=1\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"166\" srcset=\"https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/E4B14BAE-0F1D-4945-96A2-C6D05D6EA038.jpeg?resize=300%2C166&amp;ssl=1 300w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/E4B14BAE-0F1D-4945-96A2-C6D05D6EA038.jpeg?resize=1024%2C565&amp;ssl=1 1024w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/E4B14BAE-0F1D-4945-96A2-C6D05D6EA038.jpeg?resize=768%2C424&amp;ssl=1 768w, https:\/\/i0.wp.com\/blog.ladybassmusic.net\/wp-content\/uploads\/2021\/07\/E4B14BAE-0F1D-4945-96A2-C6D05D6EA038.jpeg?w=1284&amp;ssl=1 1284w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Update 1- <span class=\"heading-5 mr\">August 5, 2021<\/span><span class=\"color-gray text-small\">by Ben Titus,&nbsp;<span class=\"m-update-info-name\">Organizer<\/span><\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"o-updates-modal-list-item m-update\">\n<div class=\"m-update-content\">We are absolutely blown away by the response to this- thanks so much to everyone that&#8217;s donated so far! This just goes to show how much of an impact Brittany has had on so many folks. Please feel free to continue spreading the word, and I&#8217;ll keep you guys updated as we hear more from the insurance folks as well as the medical people with Brittany&#8217;s recovery timetable and needs.<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<div>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div>Update 2 &#8211; <span class=\"heading-5 mr\">August 6, 2021<\/span><\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<div>\n<div class=\"o-updates-modal-list-item m-update\">\n<div>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"m-update-content\">Just wanted to drop another update \u2013 wow, the outpouring of support has been tremendous! A couple of days ago, Brittany went to the body shop and brought the van home. It left some coolant in it&#8217;s wake, but it made it home under its own power. Since this GoFundMe has been so successful so far, there is a realistic chance that the van could be rebuilt with minimal insurance involvement \u2013 this would mean that the van could avoid having a salvage or rebuilt brand on the title. It&#8217;s also a heck of a lot cheaper than trying to replace the van with an equivalent vehicle. With the used car market being the way it is, a direct replacement for this van with the same equipment, engine, and condition, and 150k-ish miles would be at least $7000! Moving to something newer at least doubles this as the price of entry. Research is ongoing right now on the parts list for the van to see if we can come in under the $5100 quote from the body shop.<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<div class=\"m-update-content\">The unknown right now is the medical aspect. Thankfully, Brittany can&#8217;t technically be &#8220;totaled&#8221; by her insurance, but her performance schedule has obviously been greatly impacted. Add in visits for specialists and PT, and that could start adding up.As a result, I&#8217;m going to bump up the goal for this a little bit. Every bit that we can generate expands the options regarding the van, plus makes sure that Brittany can get the rehab needed to be back on stage and in studio ASAP! Thanks again to everyone who&#8217;s already donated, as well as to folks considering it!&nbsp;<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<div>&nbsp;<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><!-- Default Statcounter code for Lady Bass Music\nhttp:\/\/www.ladybassmusic.net --><br \/>\n<script type=\"text\/javascript\">\nvar sc_project=1496529; \nvar sc_invisible=0; \nvar sc_security=\"ec215b54\"; \nvar sc_https=1; \nvar scJsHost = \"https:\/\/\";\ndocument.write(\"<sc\"+\"ript type='text\/javascript' src='\" +\nscJsHost+\n\"statcounter.com\/counter\/counter.js'><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>My inner circle has some really special folks. 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